Untangling Damaging Soul Ties In Relationships
A soul tie is an emotional bond or connection that unites you with someone. Transference of spirits is the transfer of spirits from one person to another. so if you have sexual relationship with a highly demonized person(s) or member of the occult, a witch This can also lead to strong unholy soul-ties. Because demonic spirits can transfer so easily through soul ties, it's essential to identify and destroy those that are ungodly, controlling.
The pain is hidden on the outside, but it is very real on the inside. It is time to take off the mask, be honest and get free. An ungodly soul tie is when the mind, will and emotions of a person becomes entangled to the point where their thoughts are not always their own, when a person is unnaturally affected by the will, the emotions and desires of someone or something else.
You can also be soul-tied to things. When things in your life are keeping you from doing what God has called you to do, it is an ungodly tie. He wants you to have good things but He does not want things to have your heart. What is a soul tie? Soul-ties are exactly what it sounds like. It is the spiritual joining or linking together of two souls which can bring fourth both beneficial results or negative results. The Bible doesn't use the term soul tie, but it speaks of souls being knit together or becoming one flesh.
A soul tie can serve many functions, but in its simplest form, it ties two souls together in the spiritual realm.
Soul ties between fornicators can draw a beaten and abused woman to the man which in the natural realm she would hate and run from, but instead she runs to him even though he doesn't love her, and mistreats her. In the demonic world, unholy soul ties can serve as bridges between two people to pass demonic bondage through. Other soul ties can do things such as allow one person to manipulate and control another person, and the other person is unaware of what is going on or knows what is going on, but for no rational reason, allows it to continue.
Unhealthy soul-ties include relationships that are characterized by manipulation, guilt, emotional abuse, co-dependency, unnatural affection, envy or lust. You can tell a soul-tie by its fruit. A godly soul-tie will strengthen your emotional wholeness and walk with God. It will bear the fruit of love, fidelity, loyalty, honor and righteousness. An ungodly soul-tie will bear the fruit of the flesh and not the spirit; as hatred, resentment, manipulation, anger, strife, jealousy, controlling others.
They will keep you from a good relationship with God and bring bondage instead of freedom into your life. A godly soul tie is a soul tie that is within the will of God for your life. An ungodly soul tie is when you have a soul tie outside the will of God for your life. The most important soul tie is that between you and the Lord. Anything that comes between you and God, that keeps you from serving Him and loving Him above all, is an idol, a little god in your life.
Anything that keeps you from obeying Him and His Word is an idol and must be broken and removed from your life if you are to serve Him with a pure and whole heart and partake of the Kingdom. God loves us so much He has a plan for each one of us. When we stay connected to Him and obey His will for our lives it will protect you from becoming tied to Ungodly people or getting caught up in doing ungodly things. If you start meditating on and attaching your self to things, people and places that are outside the will of the Father, you start losing control over your own thoughts that the Holy Spirit places in your heart, and the longer this goes on the further you separate your self from fellowship with the Father.
Your spiritual ears become dull to hearing His voice, and when you cannot hear His voice you cannot do what He is prompting you to do. He is always trying to warn us of dangers that are trying to come and He is trying to show you the way of escape and keep you from harm. Soul Ties outside first person relationships Though the most common soul tie is with another person you know or have had a relationship with, you can also be soul tied to an animal, or even a thing.
I have seen people so tied to an animal that it was more important than anything else in their life, even more than caring for family members. They will waste thousands of dollars to try and save a dog that has to die. Many are soul tied to television? Are you so preoccupied with television that you cannot hear the Holy Spirit speaking to you? Many women will let everything else go to watch a soap opera. Soaps can be very dangerous spiritually, because it is a fantasy world. Everyone cheats on everyone, and does all sorts of evil and that plants seeds in your soul.
Many get so tied up in the soap that they act and think as if it is real. They make prayer requests for actors in the soap. Many need to cut and sever that tie with this ungodly world of imagination. Children believe and get so caught up in what they are seeing; they try to act it out, sometimes putting themselves in danger.
Children can become soul tied at a very young age to the things of the world. Many are soul tied to a certain music group or kind of music, like rap and they are like a drug addict in their relationship to that music. Music has tremendous power. It can be used to calm the savage beast or one tormented as when David played for King Saul, or music can turn the calm into a beast. God created music and Satan corrupted it.
Unfortunately, since the corrupted music is what appeals to and pumps up our flesh, that is what most want to hear. We need to consider why God created music in the first place. It was for worship. What does you music lead you into? All three levels of relationship can occur between two friends, co-workers or church members, between a brother and sister, a parent and child and of course a husband and wife.
The marital relationship is where the three all come together in the most intense and intimate way. Make NO mistake about it, the sexual relationship between a married couple involves all three parts of our being, your body, soul and spirit. It has never been just a physical act and never will be because of the way God designed it to be. He designed us to be joined together and to become one, not just physically. This can prevent us from fully giving ourselves to our spouse.
If you had a previous girl friend or spouse and are divorced and remarried, those old ties must be broken or you will have serious problems in your marriage. When our soul is divided it affects our ability to receive from others and God. Other soul-ties will affect your ability to trust your spouse. Because you are unable to receive the love that they offer, you will deem them unworthy of trust even without thinking about it.
The problem is you are double-minded according to James chapter 1. This problem destroys marriages as it does ones ability to receive from God and to trust God. This is why ungodly soul-ties must be broken. They produce death, instead of life. Women as nothing more than meat We have to stop thinking of sex as just a physical act because it is not just a physical act, but a spiritual one.
Through such wrong thinking the feminist movement has surrendered women to predatory men who have taken women's newfound freedom as the perfect opportunity to surrender all sexual responsibility, respect and gallantry. The problem with the problem of treating women as meat is that many of the solutions offered up are far worse than the problem.
The Taliban had an easy and perverse solution, and that was to treat women as prisoners.
To completely cover up the female form with a burqa and shut women out of Afghani public and professional life is even worse than being forced to hear about the latest exploits of Paris Hilton and Britney Spears. On the other hand, making the case that there is nothing wrong with women freely displaying their bodies and embracing their sexuality in any way they desire is equally perverse because it supports pornography, which coarsens our culture, and degrades women.
An important move in learning not to treat women as meat is to restore the sundered link between love and sex. Porn is not possible if sex is widely seen as the way to express love.
If sex is nothing more than scratching an itch, it cannot be the physical consequence of love and trust. Love is never casual, and when sex becomes casual it cannot serve the needs of love. The best way to reestablish this link between love and sex is to teach that the only satisfying context for this linkage is marriage, and marriage as a place where men and women deeply love and deeply trust one another.
Remember that we have been made in the image of God and His likeness, but if we do not stay focused on walking in His likeness the devil will try to get us to follow some other image and we will become like the image or likeness we follow after. There are many people that want to do the will of God and desire to have a deeper relationship with Him, however at the same time they do not want to let go of the people, places or things that are tied to their deepest emotions.
If soul ties are not dealt with they can cause your heart to harden. You will start justifying them and turn away from the Word of God or when you hear the Word, you start only hearing what fits into the mold of the soul tie instead of the truth. The devils job is to try and steal your soul and if he can help you stay tied in an ungodly way to the wrong person, thing, place or habit he will do that.
As long as you are bound he will continue to try digging you deeper into sin and keep you from serving God with all your heart. Lets get free from ungodly soul-ties and live free as children of the living God. We already know that there are many kinds of soul ties and at different levels. Some develop soul ties with animals, imaginary characters, inanimate objects and more. Most soul-ties men create in the world are ungodly and unhealthy for our living a victorious overcoming Christian life.
This is a broad subject and so we are not trying to fully cover all kinds of soul-ties in detail and we are not dealing with those that strictly have to do with the unsaved.
The positive effects of a godly soul ties: And Jonathan stripped himself of the robe that was upon him, and gave it to David, and his garments, even to his sword, and to his bow, and to his girdle.
Their souls were tied or joined together. The stronger the bonding or soul ties between friends the deeper and more lasting the relationship is. Also the emotional and mental strengths of the one will sustain the other in times of adversity and allows them to rejoice with each other in the times of victory. They drew encouragement, security and fellowship through their relationship.
When love between friends is pure and not polluted by selfish desires, the bond between will be a blessing. Jesus speaks of this kind of love in John The Holy Spirit will teach you how to have this kind of relationship. It takes people that have a pure and giving heart that put their love in action. If you have a close friend in your life right now and they have these characteristics; that is good.
If they are selfish and controlling, this friendship could become dangerous, because your souls are knit together, emotionally and this is not a Godly kind of soul tie. The Bible warns against entering ungodly relationships. God made us social creatures and meant for us to have social interaction and relationships with others, but we need discernment in them. The early church in the book of acts was so explosive and experienced such power because they were unified in soul and spirit.
Our Heavenly Father designed the universe to function with natural and spiritual laws that bring freedom when obeyed, but bondage and destruction when broken and violated. Just as two souls can be knit or made to cleave together in a covenant relationship, they can also be tied or knit together to form bondage and enslavement.
Sexual union was ordained by God to make two marriage partners one flesh before God, but promiscuous premarital and extramarital affairs mysteriously ties ones soul to other partners. It is a spiritual tie between two people. We seem to misunderstand the seriousness in these soul ties and it is because of a lack of knowledge that we suffer. Since the sexual union of marriage ties two souls together as one, what do you think happens if a person commits fornication or adultery with another person outside of the marriage?
They cleave together just as in marriage. The soul ties formed through illicit sexual involvement can be as strong and binding as those formed through marriage. It is very important that married couples be satisfied in their sexual life. If one is not they may become strongly tempted to seek sexual fulfillment elsewhere.
4 Indicators Of Wrong Soul Ties
This can only come because two people give themselves to one another and they live to satisfy the needs of their mate. When two people are more interested in pleasing themselves than their mate, neither will be satisfied. And his soul cleaved unto Dinah the daughter of Jacob This is why it is so common for a person to still have 'feelings' towards an ex-lover that they have no reason to be attracted to in that way. Even 20 years down the road, a person may still think of their first lover Demonic spirits can take advantage of ungodly soul ties, and use them to transfer spirits from one person to another.
Ritual sex is one of the key means for getting new members into the bondage of spiritual whoredoms, like the worship of the goddess Diana in the book of Acts or witch covens and satanic groups today.
Sexual play in any form intercourse, oral, etc. Sex outside of marriage will not only open a person up to diseases as HIV, but it also creates a spiritual bondage between partners, a link that can cause unclean or demonic bondages to transfer from one person to the other.
But he that is joined united unto the Lord is one with Him in spirit. Flee fornication sexual immorality.
Every sin that a man commits is outside the body; but he that committeth fornication sexual immorality sinneth against his own body. Their souls were joined or tied together. Often there are men who have an affair with a prostitute called a one night stand, and afterwards, even years later, they still think about that girl! No matter what Satan tells you, and how he says it is ok to have sex outside of marriage as its okay because you are in love.
Your life will become entangled and you will come into spiritual bondage. The consequences of a casual affair can be harmful and enduring because the soul ties formed can actually bind a person for life. God so designed every woman that the first man who has sex with her takes a form of dominion over her.
God made woman to develop a longing desire for her first lover. The dominion a soul tie gives a man over his lover is often so binding that he can insult and mistreat her but she seems helplessly enslaved to him. King David and Jonathan had a good soul tie as a result of a good friendship 1 Samuel Idolizing somebody can cause a bad soul tie. I have heard too that you can create a soul tie with a rock group by becoming obsessed with their music. Which explains the strong pull towards certain music that seems almost irresistible.
Vows, commitments and agreements: Vows are known to bind the soul Numbers How to break a soul tie 1. If any sins were committed to cause this soul tie, repent of them! Fornication is perhaps one of the most common ways to create nasty soul ties. If gifts were given to you by the other person in connection with the sin or unholy relationship, such as rings, flowers, cards, bras, etc.
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I would get rid of them! Such things symbolize the ungodly relationship, and can hold a soul tie in place. I would still encourage you to get rid of anything that symbolizes the ungodly practices in the relationship though, such as if a guy gives a girl a bra and panties with his initials on them during fornication.
I wouldn't encourage you to hang on to such things that symbolize sin or that are wrong to give each other before marriage. Things such as flowers and love letters given during an adultery should be destroyed.
Soulties: how they are formed, what they do, and how to break soul ties
Any rash vows or commitments made that played a part in forming the soul tie should be renounced and repented of, and broken in Jesus' name. Even things like "I will love you forever", or "I could never love another man!
They are spoken commitments that need to be undone verbally.